Archive for the ‘What’s Happening’ Category


Posted: 31st March 2012 by Duality in What's Happening

Sorry its been awhile since I’ve posted anything, just hasn’t been a lot to write about.  Grace was a bit bad and let her therapy sessions lapse for a couple of months and the net result of that was me pushing the pause button on most of what we’re doing.  She had too much build [...]

Still No Sleep Till Brooklyn

Posted: 13th March 2012 by Duality in What's Happening

Last night was not fun.  Still not exactly fun, but at least its better then it was.  At one point my pain level hit a point where I was nauseous from it.  Nothing like staring at the commode and wondering if you’re going to throw up.  Its an incredibly frustrating time for me.  Back in January [...]

Sleep, Perchance to Dream

Posted: 1st March 2012 by Duality in What's Happening

Sleep and I are simply not on speaking terms at the moment.  I went to the doctor today to try to continue to find a fix and hopefully we’re moving in the right direction.  Going on a new med that will help me sleep, but probably will fog my brain a little more.  At this [...]

Slow It Down

Posted: 21st February 2012 by Duality in What's Happening

Not much to post about today other then what I’m doing to Grace this week.  With all the stress she’s been under, I decided to scale back her tasks.  She did not immediately appreciate this fact largely because she didn’t see where I had scaled things back from.  I invited her to compare and contrast [...]


Posted: 19th February 2012 by Duality in Scenes, What's Happening

Changing anti-depressants is not a pleasant experience.  Your body and to a degree your emotions get out of whack for a bit and its easy to see situations and build them into bigger things then they really are.  I suspect I’ve done that a lot the last couple of weeks with Grace.  Because of my history with [...]

Upon Further Review

Posted: 17th February 2012 by Duality in What's Happening

Having had enough of the whole not being able to orgasm thing, I decided to do some research into the medication I was taking.  It seems Zoloft is pretty infamous for this little side effect.  So at least I know exactly what is going on instead of just largely suspecting it.  And there are some [...]


Posted: 16th February 2012 by Duality in What's Happening

I really hate switching my medications around.  Especially the ones that either screw with mood or the ones designed to calm my nerve endings down so they aren’t firing off so damn much.  It takes awhile for the old drug to get out of my system and the new drug to fully establish itself enough [...]

Sleep Broken, But Fixed

Posted: 11th February 2012 by Duality in What's Happening

Sleep had become a very large problem for me.  It would take me forever to get to sleep and even when I did pass out from exhaustion I’d sleep about five hours.  It started sometime around the operation, but I dismissed it as, you know, being part of the re-cooperation process.  But things got progressively worse, [...]

Set The Date

Posted: 8th February 2012 by Duality in What's Happening

So we had our meeting with the local Dom that Gracie knows and had a pleasant enough conversation with her.  It would appear this coming Monday shall be the day that I get to sample some instruments to use.  There really wasn’t much of a negotiation process as this is going to be a low [...]


Posted: 6th February 2012 by Duality in Dynamics, What's Happening

In a perfect world, Grace signs the contract and on January 1st everything contained in the contract instantly begins to occur and continue to occur without any further discussion or issue.  Oh yeah, and the Saints win the Super Bowl.  But this isn’t a perfect world.  Its a cruel world where the Saints lose in [...]