Archive for the ‘Scenes’ Category


Posted: 10th March 2012 by Duality in Dynamics, Scenes

So I went to my first Munch Thursday night.  Grace already wrote about it and she did so mistakenly thinking that me typing away on my keyboard meant I was writing up my thoughts on it.  I wanted a little time to process things and me sitting in a chair for a few hours added [...]


Posted: 5th March 2012 by Duality in Dynamics, Scenes

As Grace points out in her blog,  Saturday was a good day.  The day started with some amazing sex and ended with some amazing sex.  But apparently something I said was deemed “unsexy”.  So as she decided not to add anything but a poll, I figured I’d actually tell you what happened.  Grace came to [...]


Posted: 19th February 2012 by Duality in Scenes, What's Happening

Changing anti-depressants is not a pleasant experience.  Your body and to a degree your emotions get out of whack for a bit and its easy to see situations and build them into bigger things then they really are.  I suspect I’ve done that a lot the last couple of weeks with Grace.  Because of my history with [...]


Posted: 15th February 2012 by Duality in Scenes

Kind of continuing with “What I learned from the flogging” stream of thought here.  What you need to understand is that when its done right, the submissive really doesn’t have any idea just how much actual damage is being done to them during the flogging.  Oh sure, there’s pain.  And there will be pain that [...]

More on the Flogging

Posted: 14th February 2012 by Duality in Scenes

So remember when I had trouble sleeping?  Well that problem got solved.  The pendulum has swung to the other extreme now and I’m hoping I’m just catching up on sleep and adjusting to new medications because sleeping 9 to 10 hours a night plus a 3 to 5 hour “nap” during the day is getting [...]


Posted: 13th February 2012 by Duality in Scenes

Hmm.  So where exactly to begin with this?  Today was the day where the local Dom came over with her bag of toys to allow us to sample and see what we thought of them.  The focus today was on floggers.  She had an entire suitcase full of floggers.  From the duct tape kind all [...]


Posted: 2nd February 2012 by Duality in Scenes, What's Happening

Grace, as I may or may not have mentioned…remember my memory is Swiss cheese, is involved with the local bdsm community.  One of her friends in said community is a female Dom who apparently has a lot of spanking implements.  Grace told me that said friend would be willing to come over and let us [...]

New Week

Posted: 31st January 2012 by Duality in Dynamics, Scenes

There’s been a stop and go quality to the D/s component of Grace and mine’s relationship since I collared her at the beginning of the year.  Its not anyone’s fault, just some winter time illnesses that have clogged up the works from time to time.  So I impressed upon Gracie that I wanted her to [...]

Counting to 20

Posted: 21st January 2012 by Duality in Scenes

I came into the bedroom to find Grace, naked, and sprawled out on the bed looking expectantly at me.  Well, well, well.  Somebody got motivated by my bratty post the other day.  So I decided to oblige her unsaid request.  Especially since she can have a maintenance spanking each day so long as she requests it [...]

The Bratty Dynamic

Posted: 19th January 2012 by Duality in Dynamics, Scenes

Grace is a brat.  There really is no denying it and its something she revels in from time to time.  I understand the faction within the bdsm community that looks down their collective noses at those Doms who put up with brats and their general disdain of the practice.  But, as with most things in [...]