Archive for the ‘Energy’ Category

Out of Toothpicks

Posted: 25th January 2012 by Duality in Energy, What's Happening

This is going to be an analogy story, so bear with me.  When you wake up in the morning, you have “X” amount of energy.  You also have “Y” amount of energy as a reserve.  Its that energy you get when you think to yourself something like “I just have to dig a little deeper [...]

Boundary Issue

Posted: 19th October 2011 by Duality in Dynamics, Energy

Yesterday I decided to initiate a little playtime with Grace.  In retrospect it wasn’t the best of ideas.  I wasn’t feeling all that hot and Grace has had a couple of rough days between shuttling me to appointments as well as appointments and errands for her father.  Nothing bad came out of this, don’t get [...]

Duality of Fear

Posted: 19th October 2011 by Duality in Dynamics, Energy

Fear is interesting to me.  It wasn’t always so, but seeing how turned on Grace can be if you add in just the right amount of fear has made me reexamine it quite a bit.  Its not easy to get the mix right with fear, though I imagine Grace probably feels that its easy for [...]


Posted: 29th September 2011 by Duality in Dynamics, Energy

Most of the time when I set up a scene I have a clear understanding of what is about to happen.  I know what I’m going to do, how I’m going to do it, and at what times in the scenes it will occur.  I also know how Grace will react to each thing I [...]

The mix is wrong

Posted: 20th August 2011 by Duality in Dynamics, Energy

When you are a Dom, control is everything.  It is your will over your sub that dictates what occurs in any given scene.  But beyond that is the control over yourself.  Whatever head space you need to be in to Dom needs to be somewhat consistent.  When its off, it causes you to be off [...]

Anger as fuel

Posted: 17th August 2011 by Duality in Energy, Pain

There are times where Grace needs to be pushed in ways that are painful.  Be it a spanking that leaves her bottom very red or those times where she likes to have her nipples twisted harshly.  My default settings that I live my day to day life in typically is one of a big teddy [...]