Archive for the ‘Dynamics’ Category

Order Up

Posted: 6th January 2012 by Duality in Dynamics

One of the biggest changes I’ve had to adjust to with this contract is ordering for Grace.  On a purely logical level I understand how much me doing this makes sense and is actually beneficial to us.  Grace…. well she sometimes has a hard time making up her mind on things.  Sometimes in restaurants this can [...]

Adjusting

Posted: 3rd January 2012 by Duality in Dynamics

There’s a period of adjustment we are going through with the contract enacted.  Ironically I think its me who is having to deal with the biggest shift in how one of us thinks on a day to day basis.  For Grace it really can be boiled down to its truest form to saying “yes” as [...]

Permission

Posted: 2nd January 2012 by Duality in Dynamics, What's Happening

Grace has taken to her new role well.  Too well in one area, in fact.  In an attempt to fully show her submission to me, she began asking permission to leave the room.  Now she and I spend most of our time in the bedroom.  Its where the computers are and, for me, its just [...]

What I Thought Love Was

Posted: 6th December 2011 by Duality in Dynamics

If I had a time machine and could go back in time and meet myself, I think the one thing I’d try to explain to the younger me, besides which stocks he should really buy or what sports teams to bet on, is what love really is.  We really don’t learn what love truly is [...]

Squirm For Me

Posted: 5th December 2011 by Duality in Dynamics, Scenes

There is kind of a game that Grace and I play.  We sometimes refer to it as a dance.  It usually starts with a look she will give me after a comment.  Its a look that screams defiance.  I love that look.  Love it.  It signals that the dance has begun.  The banter between she [...]

Playful Fun

Posted: 25th October 2011 by Duality in Dynamics, Scenes

I haven’t been in a very playful mood of late.  Sexually speaking here.  Oh, I’m playful with Grace on a day to day basis.  Its just when it comes to sex I’ve had to be pretty focused in what I’m doing because if I’m not, chances are I’m going to goof something up.  And by [...]

Sound As An Implement

Posted: 22nd October 2011 by Duality in Dynamics

Today’s MBS Brunch, hosted by Hermoine, is about whether or not sound is a factor for using implements for spanking.  I figured I’d elaborate more on my response where I point out that sound, in and of itself, can be the point to a spanking.  

Not Sure How To Fix This

Posted: 21st October 2011 by Duality in Dynamics, What's Happening

No, I haven’t screwed up.  All you women out there quit looking at me like that!  Sheesh.  What needs to be fixed is more about different things coming to a head all at roughly the same time.  Lemme explain.  

Boundary Issue

Posted: 19th October 2011 by Duality in Dynamics, Energy

Yesterday I decided to initiate a little playtime with Grace.  In retrospect it wasn’t the best of ideas.  I wasn’t feeling all that hot and Grace has had a couple of rough days between shuttling me to appointments as well as appointments and errands for her father.  Nothing bad came out of this, don’t get [...]

Duality of Fear

Posted: 19th October 2011 by Duality in Dynamics, Energy

Fear is interesting to me.  It wasn’t always so, but seeing how turned on Grace can be if you add in just the right amount of fear has made me reexamine it quite a bit.  Its not easy to get the mix right with fear, though I imagine Grace probably feels that its easy for [...]