Archive for the ‘Dynamics’ Category

Connecting Through Pain

Posted: 18th March 2012 by Duality in Dynamics, Pain

There’s a certain perspective that you get when you deal with pain every day.  It kind of throws you off into another world almost where people try to imagine what kind of pain you are in and can’t.  And I used to be in that other world.  I’d see someone in obvious pain and say [...]


Posted: 10th March 2012 by Duality in Dynamics, Scenes

So I went to my first Munch Thursday night.  Grace already wrote about it and she did so mistakenly thinking that me typing away on my keyboard meant I was writing up my thoughts on it.  I wanted a little time to process things and me sitting in a chair for a few hours added [...]


Posted: 5th March 2012 by Duality in Dynamics, Scenes

As Grace points out in her blog,  Saturday was a good day.  The day started with some amazing sex and ended with some amazing sex.  But apparently something I said was deemed “unsexy”.  So as she decided not to add anything but a poll, I figured I’d actually tell you what happened.  Grace came to [...]

A Visit to Submission

Posted: 29th February 2012 by Duality in Dynamics

Sleep and I aren’t the best of friends at the moment.  I’ve got a couple of things going on and they aren’t a quick fix.  One, I had to get off my old antidepressant and start up a new one.  That’s never an easy transition regardless of the medications.  On top of that I’ve apparently [...]


Posted: 28th February 2012 by Duality in Dynamics

I was raised by a very proper Southern woman who taught me how to be a “good boy”.  And one of the things you do as a good boy is never, ever, ever hit a woman.  You see where this is going considering the nature of the blog.  As Grace and I enter into this [...]


Posted: 6th February 2012 by Duality in Dynamics, What's Happening

In a perfect world, Grace signs the contract and on January 1st everything contained in the contract instantly begins to occur and continue to occur without any further discussion or issue.  Oh yeah, and the Saints win the Super Bowl.  But this isn’t a perfect world.  Its a cruel world where the Saints lose in [...]

New Week

Posted: 31st January 2012 by Duality in Dynamics, Scenes

There’s been a stop and go quality to the D/s component of Grace and mine’s relationship since I collared her at the beginning of the year.  Its not anyone’s fault, just some winter time illnesses that have clogged up the works from time to time.  So I impressed upon Gracie that I wanted her to [...]

Out of Commission…Again

Posted: 28th January 2012 by Duality in Dynamics, What's Happening

Grace and I haven’t been having a lot of luck health wise the last few days.  She has had some form of crud that has brought her tasks to a screeching halt and I pushed my luck today, did too much, and now my back is out and my left hip screams bloody murder at [...]

The Bratty Dynamic

Posted: 19th January 2012 by Duality in Dynamics, Scenes

Grace is a brat.  There really is no denying it and its something she revels in from time to time.  I understand the faction within the bdsm community that looks down their collective noses at those Doms who put up with brats and their general disdain of the practice.  But, as with most things in [...]

What It All Means So Far

Posted: 7th January 2012 by Duality in Dynamics

So, what does this contract actually seem to translate into when it comes to sex?  I’ve covered some of this on Grace’s side of it, as she has herself, but I figured I’d go into a little more detail and add my own view. Grace continues to buy into submission completely.  This has given her [...]