Archive for January, 2012

What To Get?

Posted: 12th January 2012 by Duality in What's Happening

So I’ve decided to start expanding our toy collection this year and I’m trying to decide what to get first.  The choices I’m looking at are a flogger, a cane or some other thin type item, or a handcrafted paddle.  We know someone who does the paddles in town and can make them to order, [...]

What It All Means So Far

Posted: 7th January 2012 by Duality in Dynamics

So, what does this contract actually seem to translate into when it comes to sex?  I’ve covered some of this on Grace’s side of it, as she has herself, but I figured I’d go into a little more detail and add my own view. Grace continues to buy into submission completely.  This has given her [...]

Order Up

Posted: 6th January 2012 by Duality in Dynamics

One of the biggest changes I’ve had to adjust to with this contract is ordering for Grace.  On a purely logical level I understand how much me doing this makes sense and is actually beneficial to us.  Grace…. well she sometimes has a hard time making up her mind on things.  Sometimes in restaurants this can [...]


Posted: 3rd January 2012 by Duality in Dynamics

There’s a period of adjustment we are going through with the contract enacted.  Ironically I think its me who is having to deal with the biggest shift in how one of us thinks on a day to day basis.  For Grace it really can be boiled down to its truest form to saying “yes” as [...]


Posted: 2nd January 2012 by Duality in Dynamics, What's Happening

Grace has taken to her new role well.  Too well in one area, in fact.  In an attempt to fully show her submission to me, she began asking permission to leave the room.  Now she and I spend most of our time in the bedroom.  Its where the computers are and, for me, its just [...]

Starting the New Year Right

Posted: 1st January 2012 by Duality in What's Happening

First off, Happy New Year to all of you.  May this next year be better then your last.  For Grace and I, the new year begins a new chapter in our lives.  Over the past few weeks we have slowly formed out the contract to change our relationship from one where the D/s lifestyle was [...]