Archive for September, 2011

Summer Rain

Posted: 22nd September 2011 by Duality in Dynamics, History

In the weeks leading up to Grace’s second visit to me in Tennessee, our phone sex sessions centered more and more about the things I would do to her once she arrived.  She was flying in at the end of July and we would celebrate our first birthday spectacular together.  See, her birthday is August [...]

Thank You MBS!

Posted: 21st September 2011 by Duality in Uncategorized

Just a quick note to thank My Bottom Smarts for listing me on her site.  To say my previous page view high was shattered would be  sort of like saying an 8 year old got his ass kicked by the high school football player.  So thank you and for everyone wandering in from there, welcome.


Posted: 21st September 2011 by Duality in History

I have lived through some awkward moments in my life.  I once had to tell my mom, while she was eating a bowl of cereal, that I thought my girlfriend was pregnant.  Looking back on it now is comical.  She literally stopped eating with the spoon halfway from the bowl to her mouth and her [...]

Think about the future

Posted: 20th September 2011 by Duality in Bargaining, Dynamics

I have a system in place for Grace to earn back her collar from me.  She’s made a dent into the total she needs thus far and so I came to her the other day and told her that I wanted her to start thinking about what having the collar back would mean to her. [...]

Quick note on posts

Posted: 20th September 2011 by Duality in Uncategorized

I try to post everyday.  Honestly, this is by far the longest I’ve ever stuck with keeping a blog or journal so I’m trying to keep the momentum going.  The topics might not be about bdsm.  Some days the my muse is a bitch, what can I say.  So I write about things that I [...]

The Wall

Posted: 19th September 2011 by Duality in Dynamics, Pain

Both Grace and I have talked about building a wall against pain.  We both build them, but that’s about the only similarity between the two.  They both have different structures, different strengths, different weaknesses, and really different purposes.  But because we both build them, we understand each other better for it.  Once again, that duality [...]

Laughter and Pain

Posted: 18th September 2011 by Duality in Scenes

So a few days ago Grace told the story about her laughing during a scene.  I have to say, I enjoyed the Hell out of the whole thing.  I’ve always been of a mind that sex should be fun.  Sure there are plenty of serious moments with what we do.  You have to with a [...]

Hotel Stories Part 1 (Trophy Wives and Smurfs)

Posted: 17th September 2011 by Duality in Hotel Stories

So I worked hotels in and around Pigeon Forge, Tennessee for over 10 years.  That’s Dollywood, nestled in the cleavage of the Smokey Mountains in case you were wondering.  Or as I called it, the Redneck Mecca of the world.  Every redneck has to go there once in their life.  Its a rule somewhere.  I [...]

Tools of the Trade

Posted: 16th September 2011 by Duality in Dynamics, Scenes

I like options.  The more options you have, the more unpredictable you can be.  That’s not just true in Domming, that’s pretty much everything in life.  So when I spank Grace, I like to have a few options.  And I’m always looking for more.  The key, for me at least, is to not go to [...]

The Autumn Wind Is A Pirate

Posted: 15th September 2011 by Duality in History, Pain

The title is from a poem that Steve Sabol wrote for NFL films.  When read by the late, great John Facenda it was pure magic.  Its this time of year that makes me think of the poem, and for what I’ve lost along the way.  I used to love playing football.  Loved it.  I was [...]