Archive for September, 2011

Just Smile And Wave

Posted: 30th September 2011 by Duality in Filler, History

My grandfather was an interesting man.  Quiet but with a boisterous sense of humor.  Stubborn, but soft hearted.  And the man could cuss.  He probably said “Shit” more then he said “The” to be honest.  I once tried to keep up with how many times in a day he cussed.  I had filled a small [...]


Posted: 29th September 2011 by Duality in Dynamics, Energy

Most of the time when I set up a scene I have a clear understanding of what is about to happen.  I know what I’m going to do, how I’m going to do it, and at what times in the scenes it will occur.  I also know how Grace will react to each thing I [...]

New Kinky Webcomic

Posted: 28th September 2011 by Duality in Filler

Just a quick post to recommend Nic Buxom to all of you.  I have not read it yet, but Gracie has been pouring over it the last two days.  Its an autobiographical webcomic with blog entries that enhance the webcomic itself.  Nic is a professional Dom and this tells her story.  I’ll throw something into [...]

Understanding Top Drop

Posted: 28th September 2011 by Duality in Dynamics

I have to admit, I did not know this term until about a month or so ago.  Everything I had researched was more about what I could do to Grace in a safe manner.  I never really considered looking at what doing said things could do to me.  I stumbled upon it in a kind [...]

Hotel Stories 2 (Don’t Mess with the Night Audit)

Posted: 27th September 2011 by Duality in Hotel Stories

I was continually astounded by the stupidity of people who came into my little realm of minding a hotel during the wee hours of the morning.  It wasn’t just the exhausted traveler asking me how long the 24 hour pool was open for (I was asked that once a month, no lie), that is more [...]

How I Approach Sadism

Posted: 26th September 2011 by Duality in Dynamics, Pain, Scenes

I’m not a sadist.  I don’t like pain… really at all.  Like I’ve said before, I deal with it enough during the day to bring it with me to something I want to enjoy.  Grace, on the other hand, loves pain.  Well, to a point she does.  You would think it would be difficult to [...]

Sunday was a good day

Posted: 26th September 2011 by Duality in What's Happening

Brief note to say that it was a good day.  Pain level was low and I was productive.  And for the cherry on top, I got to watch my beloved Saints and they won.  I rarely get to see them here unless its a national televised game like Sunday or Monday Night Football, so that [...]

The Art of War

Posted: 25th September 2011 by Duality in Dynamics

I love military history.  Love it.  At one point growing up I was so into it I could tell you the number of aircraft on each Japanese aircraft carrier that was involved in the Battle of Midway.  Yeah…I’ve always been a geek.  I’ve always been drawn to the fine details of the battle.  Understanding what [...]

Stupid Doms

Posted: 24th September 2011 by Duality in Pain

So I’ve been dealing with an inflammation breakout the past couple of days.  Just a lot of body parts telling me, “Nope, not happening” in painful, painful ways.  As I have explained before, my body is my own Dom.  And its a sadist.  I get zero pleasure from it and I believe it prefers it [...]

Weight Issues

Posted: 23rd September 2011 by Duality in Bargaining, Dynamics

Grace and I are not in the best of physical fitness.  Its something we work on and then (insert excuse here) happens and, well, who can deal with that?  Our last attempt at it actually went really well.  We were hitting the pool at the club we are a member at, losing weight, and getting [...]